Real world.

Real world and Dream-land.

I would like to speak off some words about this two worlds. Recently i do found out that there are actually people who are still living in their imaginary world, the first impression i got was like : "holy god ! come on !! live in the real world " everytime when i says that people will start questioning about my questions. Questioning people's question is a irrespective way of repond, bare in your mind, please never do this.

My personal opinion about the real world is like a really real world. i know you are doubting on my points now. ok, lets go around the real world. Real world contains million kinds of situation to be encounter, the few things that we always talk about is cruelty, realistic, stay concious, be bad for some reasons, be good for all the time. The last two situations seems to be a contradictory towards each other. you need independancy to live in the real world not but not to order foods from the fast food chain and expect they would send to your door in the middle of the night. Independant is a factor for you to live sttronger in the world, but why wouldn't everyone understand about this?

People who do no take advices from people to live on, they are the most stupid person to be survived. Someone who may have gone trough all these obstacles only they are able to tell you about their experience but why do you ignore that? why do you always question about people's questions or facts? i understand that our teacher tought us about questioning the facts that we are not understand but think twice about it, do you think you should be questioning people's experience while the person would not mind to share his experience or thoughts with you? When this particualr individual share the personal experience with you, the only thing he has in his mind is to make your life more easy. Real world is not a easy easy world. Real world is not equal to Fantasy world.

Even your communication would be a problem for you if you are from the fantasy world but living in the real and realistic world. trust me or you don't. Never tell the person to leave you alone in your fantasy world, you are not showing ur balls but you are killing youself. you disrepect the person. you disrespect youself.

Respect

Recently i found couple of scenarios about the respect issues in the real life and it happened to me and bb, some people they seriously never understand how important the defination of this word means, they simply do not care about what is your feeling and just go on with what they are doing. Respect comes from someone's emotion, education, living atmosphere, behaviour, character. Those people who do not have this in common with normal human being whom has the normal feeling of respecting people they are such a jerk, from my point of view, this people must not have encounter respect this issue in the whole life of them, or maybe they have no feeling or emotion at all, from these two points might be more than enough to catogorized them as JERK.

These kind of jerks they exist in everywhere no matter under what kind of situation of workplace, believe it or not, it even happened in some companies. Lets say, if this RESPECT issue happen in the kindergarden, primary, high school or maybe college, we are still be able to forgive them, this is because the thinking they have in mind is not mature enough, beause they might be born in a family which have them as the only kid * FYI : i'm taking the example doesn't means all the one-kid-family might behave the same way, i'm just trying to illustrate some facts that i've seen *, this kid might behave like a jerk and do not care about people's feeling it has a understandable excuse but not forgiven for his own sake. They have been living like a prince or princess at home without knowing the consequences of irrespective. for an example, this kid's name XX, she stays in a friend's house as a guest for temporary, and she does not respect the rule in the house, and she acts like a princess, without taking care of people's feeling, and she even treat you like a maid, what do you defined this behaviour? isn't this is IRRESPECTIVE !?

This kind of situation might happened in the younger age but you never carry this with you until you are old to death, why would i say this? REMEMBER : WITHOUT TAKING CONCERN OF PEOPLE'S FEELING, YOU DO NOT EXPECT PEOPLE WOULD RESPECT OR TAKING CARE OF YOU. This phrase had been taught to me since i was young at age of three. i'm trying to say that i'm good or a respect people all the while, i do not respect some people when they don't respect me in the first place.

There is an example happened in the real life, and under a challenging atmosphere, is called WORKPLACE, for a illustration to you, i'll give you an example, everone in a company needs respect, no matter which level or position you are holding now. Do you guys agree with me? leeave me a comment ! every month end or the begining of the month, you would received the salary paycheque and so do the payslip "if not you are against the labour law!", do you wish to let people see or disclose the amount you made a month? for me? i would definitely make a BIG cross over it ! if you ask me to raise my right hand to disagree, i would even raise my right leg to support the force of saying NO ! but it happened in some place, the account;s department disclose all the payslip but not their own payslip on the desk, easy, think about it, certainly ! eeryone will be so happy when they know that they have a cheque to get for the salary, everyone wll be right in front of the desk, and all the amount of your paycheque is disclosed ! everyone knows how much you made a month, what is the first thing come into your mind now? give yourself 30seconds to 1minute to think about this, i need no seconds or minutes to think, the only word came into my mind was RESPECT ! where the hell is the respect suppose to be given to me? why does my pay cheque is on the desk? someone will start questioning how do you make this kind of moeny while they are doing the same workload, or same thing in the office as a manger. how do you feel? especially if you are a girl, what do you think about it and your bos is a male or something, i'm not trying to insault something, but just making an illustration. DO YOU FEEL IRRESPECTIVE NOW ?

okay, everything is about RESPECT in this world, a person without the concern of respect they are not being categorized as in normal human being with normal knwoledge or education. try to imagine if you do not respect people, when someone start scolding you at the back, who will the blame first? is your parents ! becasue your parents doesn't give you or teach you how to respect people in all the while. they will start blaming your teacher ! because they didn't teach you when you are given education. they will start blaming on your spouse, because your spouse doesn't acknowlege you about your stupid and moron behaviour. they will even start suspecting your future kids, whether or not they will be brought up as the same way like you!

So folks! start to think about it today...whether your surrounding does exist of these people!

muaks bb~ :*